I am still very new at learning to live life off center.
I am still trying to figure out all the different ways I can learn to be me. Every few hours I say to myself "It's OK to be off". I am learning how to add it into my life very slowly. Today it was throwing out all my old ideas about organizing and working with a book written just for ADHDers.
Tonight I am working on weight issues. I am terribly over weight and for the past 15 years I have looked at every diet and looked at everyone around me and thought why can't I be like them? What do they have that I don't? What do they know that I don't? Now I am trying to change my thinking. It has worked so far in everything else so I am hoping it will work for this. I have to be patient with myself something very very new for me.
So how does this living off center work first you have to say to yourself "I am not like everyone else and I don't need to be." I give you permission to be yourself! Now give it a try!